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Relationships require effort

I am 100% sure I want to live with the person I am dating today. I don't know how to control the thoughts I have sometimes, I have so many ideas in my head to live a quality life and I want to with him.

He's such a perfect honey cup. When I am upset, I don't know why my thoughts keep going to the negative side - I really need to pull my self together. I can make a relationship work, I will be understanding, I will let him live his life the way he wants, I will be by his side supporting him, I will stand with him whatever happens, I will give him all the love I have.

I will also do all the things I want, I will make it happen, I will serve the society, I will contribute, I will try to understand life from a way more different perspective. I want to grow with him, together.
This is the first time I am feeling this.

I took a small break from him yesterday - I felt I needed it, we had a fight two days back - on weed and acid - I thought he valued it more than me, I wanted to rise from my mood swings, I wanted to tell my self that this wasn't right, what I was doing. Here is our conversation and how it brought about so much more harmony and understanding in our relationship. You can't ask a person to give up his way of life overnight for anything! We need to be understanding and caring about their choices, after all, we got into this knowing about it way beforehand. So it was a choice we made.




Relationships take work! How do you make your's more beautiful? 

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