The Abditory Blog

Relationships are life changing. It’s a very practical decision you need to take with your head involved, because your choice will make your destiny. Love cannot be blind.  I am a dreamer. I want to do so many things. Thoughts about me settling have never really crossed my mind, until when I see my married cousins. They share the most beautiful relationship, to see them go through everything together, supporting each other, having cute little things in life - just seemed perfect. I aimed to lead a independent well to do life, to never marry anyone - why have all that drama in my life, I always wondered. Today when I realize what life is - it's that beautiful bond you have with someone (well not completely)- but definitely a part of it. It's being all in for each other, calling them family and treating them like a part of yourself. Relationships are supposed to be challenging, it helps you grow, it makes you realize that you need to learn how to adjust in life. Tha...

For over 6 months now I had been confused, just like always. The epiphany of life happens in rather miraculous ways. Let me rewind this story to September 25th 2018 - A young 19-year-old, looking for a job with a dream in mind and a purpose in her head and a soulful in Dubai. A country she never imagined coming to, a place she never chose. Destiny had something else in mind for her. Everything seemed fast - time, effort, struggle, new learnings. Bahai Faith, the faith of this new world. I was introduced to this faith by my dear guide and a motherly figure who I lovingly call guddi bhabhi. Time flies, it only felt like yesterday that I had a conversation with her about life and it's incompleteness in every sense, it had been 4 years actually.  The orphic way of life quite stuns me. How destiny works, and how we play such an important role in this way of life. God brought me back to Dubai, closer to who I now call my second parents. It's a beautiful journey. I have been s...